nap time

I am so happy, I can't believe I forgot Jarren took 2 naps a day for almost the first year he was home.
Now that we are on to two naps a day, what a difference.

On to the bigger thing.
John has been saying " where's mama?" Most of the time Bj waves at him.
Last night he says where's mama??? Bj turned around and pointed that chubby little index finger right at me and hugged my neck. After all the time we have spent in front of the mirror going over " mama, Bj" I could not have been happier even if he said my name.

Surgery is tentatively scheduled for lip closure July 10. We are hoping there will be a cancelation in the schedule so's Bj can slide into that spot. Jarren needs revision, and then BJ will need palate closure, circ and one more nasal surgery.....
I think I'm going to fundraise to help pay for these expenses.